“it amazes me people think their soulmate willshow up in their life a predestined time & be flawless. A true soulmate is a mirror of urself, the person who shows u all that is holding u back, & brings u to ur own attention so your life can change. they have a common upbringing, same interests but they have the one thing u don’t have which is the introspection to help u become great. What use is a soul mate if they can’t help free u from urself so you can live your life mission. Shannon L. Alder